First Steps to Take When a Death Occurs
Someone you love just died and somehow planning a funeral was not part of the conversation and now you are not sure what are the next steps of what to do. Let the Catholic Cemeteries in the Diocese of San Jose help your loved one meet eternal life with faith, hope, and love. Contact us at 833-304-0763.
We believe that our responsibility is care for you and your loved ones before, during, and after a death occurs and the need for traditional cemetery services arises. Our various service offerings will help you with all the necessary steps to make your funeral arrangements as smooth as possible.
Notify the Proper Authorities
- If the death occurs under hospital or hospice watch, the proper authorities will be notified and help you make arrangements with the coroner’s office for transport of the remains.
- If death happens at home, contact the local police or 911 for assistance. If your loved one is an organ donor, you’ll need to act quickly. If you’re not sure, check their driver’s license or will for instructions.
Contact Family and Friends
Reach out for help in making arrangements and locating key documents. Split up such tasks as contacting others who will want to know, providing support.
Contact Your Parish Priest
Arrange for the necessary rites to be administered.
Make Funeral Arrangements
Contact the Diocese of San Jose Cemetery funeral home partners.
If your loved one had a will or other document that indicate their desire for an in-ground burial or cremation wishes. If not, our family funeral home partners can guide you through the paperwork process, such as placing an obituary and ordering death certificates.
Locate Key Documents
If the deceased prepared a will that names an executor to oversee the disposition of his or her estate; otherwise, the court will have to appoint one. Search for their files for a trust; insurance policies (life, home, and auto); bank, credit card, mortgage and loan accounts; safe deposit box key; contact information for lawyer, doctor, accountant or other professional advisors; and passwords to computers and other accounts.
Notify appropriate government agencies, creditors, insurance companies and other organizations with which the deceased had business or financial arrangements. Typically, you’ll be required to submit a certified copy of the death certificate, make sure you order extra copies. The funeral home can help, or order through the county health department.